An Update on Time to Update: What’s Changed in Digital Ministry In Two Years

This week marks the 2-year anniversary of the release of my book, Time to Update: 7 Areas to Integrate Digital Discipleship into Your Children’s Ministry Strategy. When Time to Update was first released in 2023, Threads had just launched, AI tools were still new for most of us, and many churches were still figuring out post-pandemic rhythms.

Now, two years later, digital discipleship isn’t just a trend or a response to a global crisis. It’s become a key part of how we lead, equip, and connect in children’s ministry. As we celebrate the two-year anniversary of Time to Update, let’s get an update (see what I did there?) and look at how things have shifted since the book’s release and what that means for your digital ministry strategy moving forward.

Technology Changes:

• AI Tools Have Become Mainstream – In 2023, AI tools like ChatGPT were just starting to catch on, and many leaders were cautiously exploring how these tools could support their ministry. Today, they’re much more common. From creating lesson outlines to drafting social media posts or volunteer emails, AI has become a tool many leaders use to save time and stay organized. Note: If you’re using AI in your ministry, it’s important to keep it aligned with your mission. These tools can help with efficiency, but they should never replace your personal connection with kids, families, and volunteers.
• Social Media Strategy Looks Different – Social media platforms are always evolving, and that’s still true in 2025. Threads launched just after the book was published, and platforms like Instagram have continued to prioritize video content and Reels. (Psst – Follow @deeperkidmin on Instagram for easy ministry Reel ideas!) Facebook’s reach among younger parents has decreased, while short-form content and authentic engagement have taken center stage. As a result, many KidMin leaders are adjusting their social media strategies. That might mean focusing on fewer platforms with better content or finding creative ways to engage families in digital spaces beyond social media, like texting platforms or church apps.
• Greater Focus on Digital Safety – Digital safety and privacy have become even more important over the last two years. New tools and updated policies require us to think intentionally about how we collect information, share content online, and protect the kids and families we serve. Whether it’s your check-in system, online forms, or how you share photos, digital safety isn’t optional.

Ministry Strategy Changes:

• Digital Discipleship Is Now Part of Everyday Ministry – In 2023, many churches were still viewing digital tools as a bonus or add-on. Today, digital discipleship has become a regular part of weekly ministry rhythms. More churches are using digital tools to provide at-home resources, send quick parent updates, or offer flexible options for volunteers. Instead of being something extra, digital ministry is now expected. Families want easy access to what’s happening, and they’re looking for resources that fit into their busy lives. The challenge for leaders is to offer digital support without losing personal connection.
• Parents Have Higher Expectations – Today’s parents, especially younger generations, expect on-demand access to information. They’re used to finding what they need quickly, whether that’s a calendar, a Bible verse, or a quick video devotional. This shift means children’s ministry leaders need to think about how easily parents can access what we’re offering. Is your website easy to navigate? Do you provide mobile-friendly content? Are your emails clear and actionable? Meeting parents where they are can help you support them in discipling their kids at home. (Join me Thursday, September 11 for an online workshop all about partnering with today’s parents! Replay available to those who register if you can’t make it live!
• Volunteers Need Simple, Digital Support – Volunteers continue to value clear, consistent communication, and digital tools can help. Whether it’s a scheduling app, group text, or short video training, leaders are finding ways to use technology to support their teams without overwhelming them. The key is to keep it simple and helpful. Digital tools should make it easier for volunteers to serve, not create more work or confusion.

What Hasn’t Changed: 

While technology and strategies have shifted, the foundation of digital discipleship remains the same: Technology is a tool, not the goal. Our mission is still to point kids and families to Jesus, and any tool we use should serve that mission, not distract from it.

One of my favorite quotes from the book still rings true today: “Digital discipleship is about using digital tools to enhance, not replace, relational ministry.”

No matter how the tools change, that truth stays the same.

Looking Ahead: 

As you reflect on your own digital discipleship strategy, take time to evaluate what’s working and what needs to shift. Are there tools you need to explore or ones you need to let go? How can you use digital tools to better connect with families, equip volunteers, and support kids in their faith journey?

If you’re ready for a fresh look at your digital strategy, Time to Update can help. And to celebrate the book’s 2-year anniversary, I’m sharing a free resource to guide your evaluation: A Digital Ministry Audit. You can download it below to help you assess each of the seven areas covered in the book in your own ministry.

Find more info about and order your own copy of the book Time to Update here.